Plan Ahead With Gerard

I made this article for a reason—to speak directly to all clients out there, especially those I interact with online. As someone who deals with people through chats and virtual conversations, I’ve seen a pattern that’s hard to ignore. Many clients express interest, even make clear commitments during our talks—but when it’s time to follow up, it feels like everything we discussed was forgotten. No replies, no updates—just silence. This isn’t about sales or pressure. This is about  integrity . Just because we’re talking online doesn’t mean the value of your word disappears. Whether we know each other personally or not, your  commitment still matters . When you say “yes,” when you make a promise—even in a simple chat— honor it . When you ghost someone after a commitment, it’s not just inconsiderate; it reflects on your character. Keeping your word isn’t for the person you’re talking to—it’s for  you . It’s your name, your credibility, your reputation. And let me ask you this...

Adulthood hits differently when you realize there’s no handbook. No final exam. No teacher watching your every move. Just real life — bills, responsibilities, and the constant balancing act between self-care and caring for others. The truth is, growing up isn’t just about getting older. It’s about learning how to live well with others, manage your time and money, and carry yourself with respect and accountability — even when no one’s watching. There are  unspoken rules  that most adults eventually learn. But wouldn’t it be nice to know them  before  you learn the hard way? Here are  30 unspoken rules of adulthood  that can save you from unnecessary stress, embarrassment, or regret. ⸻ 1. Don’t assume your loved ones will pay your debts or funeral expenses when you die. Whether it’s hospital bills, credit cards, or memorial services — planning ahead is an act of love. 2. Respect other people’s time. Being late without notice or canceling last minute? It says ...